Yom Kippur sermon Lev Chadash : A day for joy and not despair

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Yom Kippur Morning Lev Chadash 2022

We read in the Mishnah “Rabban Shimon ben Gamliel said: There were no days as joyous for the Jewish people as the fifteenth of Av and as Yom Kippur …..And, it says: “Go forth, daughters of Zion, and gaze upon King Solomon, upon the crown with which his mother crowned him on the day of his wedding, and on the day of the gladness of his heart” (Song of Songs 3:11). This verse is explained as an allusion to special days: “On the day of his wedding”; this is the giving of the Torah through the second set of tablets on Yom Kippur. The name King Solomon in this context, which also means king of peace, is interpreted as a reference to God. “And on the day of the gladness of his heart”; this is the building of the Temple, may it be rebuilt speedily in our days.   Ta’anit 4:8

It is a complicated Mishna to make sense of – what is it trying to tell us by drawing these connections between the 15th day of Av and the 10th day of Tishrei (Yom Kippur)? And why in this tractate at all?

Ta’anit (literally meaning Fast Days) deals mainly with stressful  events which are assumed to be punishments from God, such as droughts, and the community’s response of supplication and fasting in order to get God to notice their distress and forgive their sins and end the traumatic situation.  And yet its very final Mishnah speaks about what it calls the two happiest days in the Jewish calendar: and these two days are very different types of event with apparently very little in common.

There are of course some similarities – the wearing of white on both days for example. White in the ancient world was the colour of mourning, and also the colour of equality –  dyes were expensive and coloured clothing only for the wealthy. So whether it was the young women looking for a husband and masking their social status by wearing not only white clothing but borrowed clothing; or the community members coming looking for forgiveness and giving up all signs of status and privilege among the rest of the community at prayer – both times the wearers are looking for something special: – love either human or divine, a bridge to the other, a relationship beginning….

Tu b’Av is well known for being a time for love and romance, but Kippur? It does seem a little surprising that on a day when we deny ourselves so much of the world, the Mishnah refers to it and its traditions as being a day for exploring loving relationships.

The Mishnah alludes to love at Yom Kippur with its reference to the giving of the second set of tablets at Sinai – the second chance given to Moses and the people after they committed the sin of building and worshiping the golden calf when they feared that Moses would not return to them. More than that, the Torah is spoken of in Rabbinic tradition as being the ketubah, the marriage contract, in the relationship between the people Israel and God. The love is also apparent – as the Gemara will go on to tell us, in the aspects of Yom Kippur which speak of pardon and forgiveness, ways that bring us closer and in loving relationship with God.

So we learn from this final mishnah of Ta’anit that Yom Kippur is a day for love and a day for joy.

I think we instinctively know this about Yom Kippur. Traditionally we also wear white – our kittels, the shrouds we will wear in the grave. We wear them as a sort of “dress rehearsal” for death, a reminder of our mortality, yet we know that at the end of the day we will take them off and return to life.  Our service began with the prayer “Kol HaNedarim” where we remind ourselves and God that, try as we may, the chances are that we will not live up to our vows and promises to God in the coming year, and so we make that knowledge public in that very first prayer of the many we will recite in the hours ahead.

The music for the Neilah service at the other end of Kippur is happy – El Nora Alila changes from the mournful minor key we have traditionally been using up till now, and becomes a celebration of what we have been doing.  Even as the Gates of Prayer are closing we are confident God will hear us and forgive us.

This whole period is one of second chances. And third chances, and fourth… We have the whole of the month of Elul to reflect, the Day of Rosh Hashanah to stand in Judgment, the Ten Days of Return to consider, then the day of Yom Kippur for the judgment to be sealed – yet we have until the end of Sukkot for it to be properly fixed – and then of course is Yom Kippur Katan – the minor Yom Kippur the day before each new month, when God waits for us to repent –  and to add to our chances of forgiveness, we learn that “the Gates of prayer are sometimes open and sometimes shut but the Gates of Repentance are always open” (Lam Rabbah 3:43)

Yom Kippur is a day where we act out our own mortality, and return to life with the perspective that only comes when we confront the fact that every single one of us is on the road that will lead to our death, while realising that we are not yet at the destination. We still have life to live and we have second chances to take, and we have a loving God who patiently waits for us to live our lives better. We have the chance to repent and to repair, make a new start because today is the first day of the rest of our lives. This perspective, this acknowledgement of possibilities, is what brings us joy on this most solemn of festivals.

Rabbi Nachman of Bratslav famously wrote that it is forbidden to despair. He was a man who was often mired in depressions yet who wrote that maintaining a “state of happiness is the foundation of all Jewish observance”, that “if you feel no joy when you are beginning your prayers, compel yourself to be joyful, and real joy will follow”. He suggested that joyful melodies would be helpful, and that pretending to be happy even if one is depressed, will bring joy – an early version of what is known in English as “fake it till you make it”

Yet we don’t have to fake it – despair’s antonym is not joy, but hope. And hope is in Judaism’s very DNA. Rabbi Jonathan Sacks calls it Judaism’s gift to the world, writing –  ““Western civilization is the product of two cultures: ancient Greece and ancient Israel. The Greeks believed in fate: the future is determined by the past. Jews believed in freedom: there is no ‘evil decree’ that cannot be averted. The Greeks gave the world the concept of tragedy. Jews gave it the idea of hope.”….

And further he wrote: “To be a Jew is to be an agent of hope in a world serially threatened by despair, …. Judaism is a sustained struggle…against the world that is, in the name of the world that could be, should be, but is not yet.”

Yom Kippur is the very embodiment of hope.

There is a tradition to recite psalm 27 every day from the beginning of Elul until Hoshanah Rabbah (the seventh day of Sukkot). Beginning “God is my light and my salvation”, a verse that is understood to refer both to Rosh Hashanah (light) and Yom Kippur (salvation), it also references God sheltering us under the divine Sukkah.  

The psalm begins confidently:  “God is my light and my help; whom should I fear?/ God  is the stronghold of my life, whom should I dread?”

before taking us on a journey through different kinds of fear, from fear of enemies to fear of parental abandonment before issuing the imperative :  “Hope in God, be strong and let your heart take courage, hope in God.”

The psalm contains words of encouragement, making it an important addition to the liturgy at this time, the Yamim Noraim, the Days of Awe, when every Jew is fearful about their fate, and reminded to pray and to know that God will hear and respond. It is a psalm that demands of us to hope – even when the situation seems hopeless and despair is hard to resist.

The last line : Kaveh el Adonai, chazak v’amatz libehkha, ukaveh el Adonai  — Hope in the Eternal One; be strong and of good courage!  Hope in God” is particularly powerful.”  

The middle of that verse: Chazak v’amatz” be strong and of good courage is what Moses says to Joshua when he passes on the leadership of the people. And in the first chapter of the Book of Joshua, God speaks to Joshua and offers this instruction three times (1:6,7,9), reminding him of God’s watchful presence.

Bookending that phrase are the imperatives “Hope in God”!  At moments of despair the prescription is “Tikvah” – hope, an idea embodied in the National Anthem of Israel.

Is it any easier to make ourselves hope than to make ourselves joyful? I think that it is. The Hebrew root of the word for hope “k-v-h” is a rope or a cord. It is something that we can hold on to, that we can bind ourselves to, when all around us feels chaotic and dangerous. The RaMChaL (Moses Haim Luzzatto, 18th century Italian mystic and poet) saw hope as a cord that was capable of reaching into the heavens, joining us to God.  The modern theologian Eugene Borowitz adds the dimension of time to this idea when he points out that this root only appears once in the Five books of Moses, where it is translated as “I wait for Your salvation God” (Genesis 49:18), showing that “hope” is a way to reach into the future. So “tikvah” hope, is something that can keep us afloat in difficult times and that can link us to a possible future of better times, a future of connection with God.

“It is forbidden to despair.”

 “Yom Kippur is a day for joy.”

How do we reach this joy? By knowing that life is not over, that things can change and be changed, by holding onto hope for a better world and a better future.

Rabbi Nachman of Bratslav, a man who was no stranger to fear or to despair, wrote another famous statement. Kol ha’olam kulo gesher tzar m’od, v’ha’ikkar lo yitpached clal ” – The whole world is a very narrow bridge, and the important principle is not to make ourselves afraid”  (the popular song is a misquote – he doesn’t say not to be afraid, but not to paralyse ourselves with fear).

In times of chaos and danger in our worlds, in the politics and in the economy and in the shifts in culture from democracy to populism or authoritarianism, it is important that we do not paralyse ourselves with fear, that we do not despair, but that we continue to hold onto hope and to find joy in our lives.

It isn’t as hard to do as we might fear. There is a story of Rabbi Abraham  Joshua Heschel who proclaimed to his students “I saw a miracle this morning”. The students were amazed and asked “Rabbi, what was the miracle that you saw?” Heschel replied – “The sun came up”

To find joy, to hold onto hope, to overcome despair can be as simple as letting ourselves celebrate the ordinary wonder in the world around us. To notice that beyond our small view the world is mysterious and extraordinary. Heschel called it “radical amazement”.  He wrote “The grandeur or mystery of being is not a particular puzzle to the mind, as, for example, the cause of volcanic eruptions. We do not have to go to the end of reasoning to encounter it. Grandeur or mystery is something with which we are confronted everywhere and at all times. Even the very act of thinking baffles our thinking”

So if you feel you cannot obey Nachman’s imperative to not despair, or to compel yourself to feel joy in prayer, hold on to some radical amazement, notice the everyday miracles in our world, and find the cord of hope that threads through them. Join yourself through time and space to the Jewish people  and God with this cord, and know that tonight you will return from the dress rehearsal for death, and will take the offer of living as your best self.

Sermone per Shacharit Yom Kippur a Lev Chadash 2022

Di rav Sylvia Rothschild

            Leggiamo nella Mishnà “Rabban Shimon ben Gamliel disse: ‘Non ci sono stati giorni così gioiosi per il popolo ebraico come il quindicesimo di Av e come Yom Kippur’ ….. E dice: ‘Uscite a vedere, o figlie di Sion, il Re Salomone, con la corona di cui lo ha incoronato sua madre nel giorno delle sue nozze, nel giorno della gioia del suo cuore’ (Cantico dei Cantici 3:11). Questo versetto è spiegato come un’allusione a giorni speciali: ‘Il giorno delle sue nozze’; questo è il dono della Torà attraverso la seconda serie di tavole nello Yom Kippur. Il nome Re Salomone in questo contesto, che significa anche re della pace, viene interpretato come un riferimento a Dio. ‘E nel giorno della gioia del suo cuore’; questo è l’edificio del Tempio, possa essere ricostruito presto ai nostri giorni”. Ta’anit 4:8

            È una Mishna a cui è complicato dare un senso: cosa sta cercando di dirci tracciando queste connessioni tra il quindicesimo giorno di Av (Tu be Av) e il decimo giorno di Tishri (Yom Kippur)? E perché in questo trattato?

            Ta’anit (che letteralmente significa giorni di digiuno) riguarda principalmente gli eventi stressanti che si presume siano punizioni di Dio, come la siccità. Riguarda inoltre la risposta dei membri della comunità, come la supplica e il digiuno, al fine di convincere Dio a notare la loro angoscia, perdonare i loro peccati e porre fine alla situazione traumatica. Eppure questa Mishnà parla dei due giorni più felici del calendario ebraico: e questi due giorni costituiscono due tipi di eventi molto diversi tra loro, apparentemente con molto poco in comune.

            Ci sono ovviamente alcune somiglianze, ad esempio l’uso del bianco in entrambi i giorni. Il bianco nel mondo antico era il colore del lutto e anche il colore dell’uguaglianza: le tinture erano costose e i vestiti colorati erano solo per i ricchi. Quindi sia che fossero le giovani donne che cercavano marito e mascheravano il loro status sociale indossando non solo abiti bianchi ma anche vestiti presi in prestito; o i membri della comunità in cerca di perdono, rinunciando a tutti i segni di status e privilegio, tra il resto della comunità in preghiera: entrambe le volte chi indossa il bianco è alla ricerca di qualcosa di speciale: l’amore umano o divino, un ponte per l’altro, un inizio di relazione….

            Tu be Av è rinomato per essere un momento di amore e romanticismo, ma Kippur? È un po’ sorprendente che in un giorno in cui ci rinneghiamo così tanto del mondo, la Mishnà si riferisca ad esso e alle sue tradizioni come a un giorno per esplorare le relazioni amorose.

            La Mishnà allude all’amore nello Yom Kippur con il suo riferimento alla seconda consegna di tavole al Sinai, la seconda possibilità data a Mosè e al popolo dopo aver commesso il peccato di costruire e adorare il vitello d’oro quando temevano che Mosè non sarebbe tornato da loro. Inoltre, nella tradizione rabbinica si parla della Torà come della ketubà, il contratto matrimoniale, nel rapporto tra il popolo di Israele e Dio. L’amore è anche evidente, come continuerà a dirci la Gemara, negli aspetti dello Yom Kippur che parlano di perdono, modalità che ci avvicinano a una relazione d’amore con Dio.

            Quindi impariamo da questa mishnà finale di Ta’anit che Yom Kippur è un giorno per l’amore e un giorno per la gioia.

            Penso che per Yom Kippur lo sappiamo istintivamente. Tradizionalmente indossiamo anche il bianco: i nostri kittel, i sudari che indosseremo nella tomba. Li indossiamo come una sorta di “prova generale” per la morte, un ricordo della nostra mortalità, eppure sappiamo che alla fine della giornata li toglieremo e torneremo in vita. Il nostro servizio è iniziato con la preghiera “Kol HaNedarim” in cui ricordiamo a noi stessi e a Dio che, per quanto ci proviamo, è probabile che non manterremo i nostri voti e le nostre promesse a Dio nel prossimo anno, e quindi facciamo questa ammissione pubblica in quella primissima preghiera delle tante che reciteremo nelle prossime ore.

            La musica per il servizio di Neilà all’altro capo del Kippur è felice: El Nora Alilà cambia dalla triste tonalità minore che abbiamo tradizionalmente usato fino ad ora e diventa una celebrazione di ciò che abbiamo fatto. Anche se i Cancelli della Preghiera si stanno chiudendo, siamo fiduciosi che Dio ci ascolterà e ci perdonerà.

            Questo periodo è interamente costellato da seconde possibilità. E la terza possibilità, e la quarta… Abbiamo tutto il mese di Elul per riflettere, il Giorno di Rosh Hashanà da considerare in Giudizio, i Dieci Giorni del Ritorno da considerare, poi il giorno dello Yom Kippur per il suggello del giudizio, eppure abbiamo tempo fino alla fine di Sukkot per sistemarlo adeguatamente. Poi ovviamente c’è Yom Kippur Katan: lo Yom Kippur minore, il giorno prima di ogni nuovo mese, quando Dio aspetta che ci pentiamo e apprendiamo che, per aumentare le nostre possibilità di perdono, “le Porte della preghiera sono talvolta aperte e talvolta chiuse, ma le Porte del pentimento sono sempre aperte”. (Lam Rabbà 3:43)

            Yom Kippur è un giorno in cui recitiamo la nostra mortalità e torniamo alla vita con la prospettiva che si apre solo affrontando il fatto che ognuno di noi è sulla strada che porterà alla propria morte, e nel renderci conto che non siamo ancora giunti a destinazione. Abbiamo ancora vita da vivere e abbiamo una seconda possibilità da cogliere, e abbiamo un Dio amorevole che aspetta pazientemente che noi viviamo meglio le nostre vite. Abbiamo la possibilità di pentirci e di riparare, di ricominciare perché oggi è il primo giorno del resto della nostra vita. Questa prospettiva, questo riconoscimento delle possibilità, è ciò che ci porta gioia in questa festa più solenne.

            Il rabbino Nachman di Breslav scrisse notoriamente che è proibito disperare. Era un uomo che era spesso impantanato nelle depressioni, eppure scrisse che mantenere uno “stato di felicità è il fondamento di tutta l’osservanza ebraica”, che “se non provi gioia quando inizi le tue preghiere, sforzati di essere gioioso e seguirà la vera gioia”. Ha suggerito che melodie gioiose sarebbero state utili e che fingere di essere felici anche se si è depressi avrebbe portato gioia – una prima versione di ciò che è noto in inglese come “fake it till you make it” – fingi finché non si realizza (N.d.T.).

            Eppure non dobbiamo fingere: il contrario di disperazione non è gioia, ma speranza. E la speranza è nel DNA stesso dell’ebraismo. Il rabbino Jonathan Sacks lo chiama il dono del giudaismo al mondo, scrivendo: “La civiltà occidentale è il prodotto di due culture: l’antica Grecia e l’antico Israele. I greci credevano nel destino: il futuro è determinato dal passato. Gli ebrei credevano nella libertà: non esiste ‘decreto malvagio’ che non possa essere evitato. I greci hanno dato al mondo il concetto di tragedia. Gli ebrei gli diedero l’idea della speranza”.

            Scrisse inoltre: “Essere ebreo significa essere un agente di speranza in un mondo serialmente minacciato dalla disperazione, …. L’ebraismo è una lotta continua… contro il mondo che è, in nome del mondo che potrebbe essere, dovrebbe essere, ma non è ancora”.

            Yom Kippur è l’incarnazione stessa della speranza.

            C’è la tradizione di recitare il salmo 27 ogni giorno dall’inizio di Elul fino a Hoshanà Rabbà (il settimo giorno di Sukkot). Iniziando con “Il Signore è la mia luce e la mia salvezza”, un verso che si intende riferito sia a Rosh Hashanà (luce) che a Yom Kippur (salvezza), fa anche riferimento a Dio che ci protegge sotto la divina Sukkà.

            Il salmo inizia fiducioso: “Il Signore è la mia luce e ila mia salvezza; di chi debbo avere paura?/Dio è la fortezza della mia vita, chi dovrei temere?”prima di accompagnarci in un viaggio attraverso diversi tipi di paura, dalla paura dei nemici alla paura dell’abbandono dei genitori, prima di pronunciare l’imperativo: “Spera nel Signore, sii forte e sia vigoroso il tuo cuore e spera nel Signore”.

            Il salmo contiene parole di incoraggiamento, che lo rendono un’importante aggiunta alla liturgia in questo momento, gli Yamim Noraim, i giorni di timore reverenziale, in cui ogni ebreo ha paura del proprio destino e il salmo gli ricorda di pregare e di sapere che Dio ascolterà e risponderà. È un salmo che ci chiede di sperare, anche quando la situazione sembra disperata ed è difficile resistere alla disperazione.

            L’ultima riga: “Kavè el Adonai, chazak v’amatz libehkha, ukavè el Adonai — Spera nel Signore, sii forte e sia vigoroso il tuo cuore e spera nel Signore” è particolarmente potente.

            La parte centrale di quel versetto: “Chazak v’amatz”, sii forte e coraggioso, è ciò che Mosè dice a Giosuè quando gli passa la guida del popolo. E nel primo capitolo del Libro di Giosuè, Dio parla a Giosuè e offre questa istruzione tre volte (1:6,7,9), ricordandogli la presenza vigile di Dio.

            All’inizio e alla fine di quella frase ci sono gli imperativi “Speranza in Dio”! Nei momenti di disperazione la ricetta è “Tikvà”, speranza, un’idea incarnata nell’inno nazionale di Israele.

            È più facile darci speranza che renderci gioiosi? Penso che lo sia. La radice ebraica della parola per speranza “k-v-h” significa corda. È qualcosa a cui possiamo aggrapparci, a cui possiamo legarci, quando tutto intorno a noi si sente caos e pericolo. Il RaMChaL (Moses Haim Luzzatto, mistico e poeta italiano del XVIII secolo) vedeva la speranza come una corda capace di raggiungere il cielo, unendosi a Dio. Il teologo moderno Eugene Borowitz aggiunge la dimensione del tempo a questa idea quando fa notare che questa radice compare solo una volta nei Cinque libri di Mosè, dove è tradotta come “Io spero, O Signore, nella tua salvezza” (Genesi 49,18), mostrando che la “speranza” è un modo per raggiungere il futuro. Quindi la speranza, “tikvà”, è qualcosa che può tenerci a galla in tempi difficili e che può collegarci a un possibile futuro di tempi migliori, un futuro di connessione con Dio.

            “È vietato disperare”.

            “Lo Yom Kippur è un giorno di gioia.”

            Come raggiungiamo questa gioia? Sapendo che la vita non è finita, che le cose possono cambiare ed essere cambiate, mantenendo la speranza per un mondo migliore e un futuro migliore.

            Il rabbino Nachman di Breslav, che non era estraneo alla paura o alla disperazione, scrisse un’altra famosa dichiarazione. “Kol ha’olam kulo gesher tzar m’od, v’ha’ikkar lo yitpached clal – Il mondo intero è un ponte molto stretto, e il principio importante è non avere paura” (la popolare canzone è una citazione errata: lui non dice di non avere paura, ma di non paralizzarci con la paura).

            In tempi di caos e pericolo nei nostri mondi, nella politica e nell’economia e nei cambiamenti della cultura dalla democrazia al populismo o all’autoritarismo, è importante non paralizzarci con la paura, non disperare, ma continuare a mantenere la speranza e a trovare gioia nelle nostre vite.

            Non è così difficile da fare come potremmo temere. C’è una storia sul rabbino Abraham Joshua Heschel che proclamò ai suoi studenti “Ho visto un miracolo questa mattina”. Gli studenti rimasero stupiti e chiesero “Rabbino, qual è stato il miracolo che hai visto?” Heschel rispose: “Il sole è sorto”.

            Trovare la gioia, mantenere la speranza, superare la disperazione può essere semplice come permetterci di celebrare la meraviglia ordinaria nel mondo che ci circonda. Per notare che al di là della nostra piccola visione il mondo è misterioso e straordinario. Heschel lo definiva “stupore radicale”. Scrisse: “La grandezza o il mistero dell’essere non è un particolare enigma per la mente, come, ad esempio, la causa delle eruzioni vulcaniche. Non dobbiamo andare alla fine del ragionamento per incontrarlo. La grandezza o il mistero è qualcosa con cui ci confrontiamo ovunque e in ogni momento. Anche l’atto stesso di pensare confonde il nostro pensiero”.

            Quindi, se ritieni di non poter obbedire all’imperativo di Nachman di non disperare o di costringerti a provare gioia nella preghiera, mantieni uno stupore radicale, nota i miracoli quotidiani nel nostro mondo e trova la corda della speranza che li attraversa. Unisciti attraverso il tempo e lo spazio al popolo ebraico e a Dio con questa corda, e sappi che stasera tornerai dalle prove generali per la morte e accetterai l’offerta di vivere come un te stesso migliore.

Traduzione dall’inglese di Eva Mangialajo Rantzer

Lech Lecha – the story of a famine which displaces vulnerable people needs to be heard

When Abram and Sarai, his nephew Lot and the souls they had made in Haran travelled on God’s instruction to the Land of Canaan, they arrived and stopped at Shechem, where Abram built an altar and where God promised that land to his descendants. Abram journeyed on, via the mountain near Beit El, where he built another altar, and continued southwards travelling the length of the land of Israel until they exited the Land on its southern border with Egypt.

It reads rather as an anti-climax to that famous imperative in the first recorded encounter between God and Abram:

 וַיֹּ֤אמֶר יְהוָֹה֙ אֶל־אַבְרָ֔ם לֶךְ־לְךָ֛ מֵֽאַרְצְךָ֥ וּמִמּֽוֹלַדְתְּךָ֖ וּמִבֵּ֣ית אָבִ֑יךָ אֶל־הָאָ֖רֶץ אֲשֶׁ֥ר אַרְאֶֽךָּ:

God said to Abram “Go for yourself from your land and your birthplace, and from the house of our father, to the land which I will show you”

No introduction, no explanation, no conversation – just a command to go elsewhere, the trust that the journey will have an end is implicit, God will show Abram the place when he gets there.

But it isn’t exactly what happens. Because there is famine in the land – very heavy famine.  Abram and Sarai will die if they stay there, so, prefiguring the Joseph narratives, they travel into Egypt for refuge.

Famine appears with grim frequency in bible. Each of the patriarchs will suffer serious famine – Abram goes to Egypt, Isaac goes to the Philistine King in Gerar rather than go to Egypt(Gen 26:1). Jacob and his sons go down into Egypt to buy food when the famine takes hold. The book of Ruth describes the famine that led Ruth and Elimelech to flee to Moab (Ruth 1:1). In David’s time there was a famine lasting three years (2Sam 21:1). The story of Elijah records the famine in the land (1Kings 17:1) and in Elisha fed the famine starved people of Gilgal (2Kings 4:38). Famines are also recorded in Jerusalem in the time of Tzedekiah (2Kings 25:3) (see also Jeremiah’s painful description of the drought 14:1-6) and in Canaan in the time of Nehemiah (Neh. 5:3)

The Land of Israel was dependent on the rainfall for its crops and trees, so drought and therefore famine were always to be feared. There was also fear of pests or diseases that would destroy the crops (Joel 1:4ff)and which we see most dramatically in the plague in Egypt just before the Hebrew slaves were able to leave.

War and sieges would also bring famines – again described in biblical texts with painful clarity. Famine, along with Pestilence and the sword (war) (Dever v’Herev v’Ra’av) appears regularly in a triumvirate in the Hebrew bible (cf. Jer. 14:12; 21:7, 9; 24:10; Ezek. 6:11,) and has entered the liturgy in both Avinu Malkeinu and in the Hashkiveinu prayer  (second blessing following shema)

הָסֵר מֵעָלֵינוּ אוֹיֵב דֶבֶר וְחֶרֶב וְרָעָב וְיָגוֹן

 

Talmud also discusses the problems of famine. We read in Ta’anit 5a “Rav Nachman said to Rabbi Yitzḥak: What is the meaning of that which is written: “For the Eternal has called upon a famine and it shall also come upon the land seven years” (II Kings 8:1)? Specifically, in those seven years, what did they eat?

Rabbi Yitzḥak said to Rabbi Nachman that Rabbi Yoḥanan said as follows: In the first year they ate that which was in their houses; in the second year they ate that which was in their fields; in the third year they ate the meat of their remaining kosher animals; in the fourth year they ate the meat of their remaining non-kosher animals; in the fifth year they ate the meat of repugnant creatures and creeping animals, i.e., any insects they found; in the sixth year they ate the flesh of their sons and their daughters; and in the seventh year they ate the flesh of their own arms, to fulfil that which is stated: “Each man shall eat the flesh of his own arm” (Isaiah 9:19).”

The starvation and breakdown of social norms that famine brought can be seen across the literature.  In the Talmud we read the pitiful story of one of the wealthiest women in Jerusalem, Marta bat Baitos who could not buy food with all her silver and gold, and who died after picking out the grain from the animal dung she stepped on (Gittin 56a;  Josephus mentions the eating of children in Jerusalem during the Roman War (Wars 6:201–13). There are at least three historical references to famine caused by the observance of the Sabbatical year, one during the siege of Jerusalem by the forces of Antiochus IV (Ant. 12:378), one in the war of Herod against Antigonus (Ant. 14:476) and one during Herod’s reign (Ant. 15:7).

Drought, with the rains withheld, has generally been theologised into punishment for transgressions, a tool wielded by God when we do not follow the rules that acknowledge God’s ownership of the land by bringing tithes both to thank God and to feed those who cannot grow food for themselves,  and when we fail in our our obligations to the Land to treat it well and allow it to rest.

Rabbinic responsa are also very sensitive to drought and famine, with a growing list of actions to pray for rain with special prayers added into the liturgy, fasting etc. So seriously did the rabbis take the realities of famine that they permitted emigration from the land of Israel in the case of famine, albeit only when survival would become extremely difficult(BB 91b; Gen. R. 25).

Rabba bar bar Ḥana says that Rabbi Yoḥanan says: They taught that it is prohibited to leave Eretz Yisrael only if money is cheap, i.e., not excessively difficult to obtain, and produce is expensive, similar to the case in the baraita where two se’a of wheat are sold for a sela. But when money is expensive, i.e., it is difficult to earn money for sustenance, even if the price of four se’a of grain stood at a sela, one may leave Eretz Yisrael in order to survive.(BB91b)

Basing themselves on Genesis 41:50 the rabbis (Ta’anit 11a) also forbade procreation during the years of famine.

Our tradition knows about the difficulties of living and thriving in a world where the rains may not come, where crops may fail and people may starve. It understood that while famine may come as a result of war, it is more likely to be because we, the human stewards of the world, do not treat the world as it must be treated, and the consequences of this lack of care will come to haunt us.

Abram and Sarai left their home to reach the land God had promised, but having reached it they immediately became environment migrants. The land would not let them stay and thrive, they had to put themselves at greater risk and depend on a foreign power to survive.   This part of their story is not often emphasised – the great journey to the promised land is a far more palatable thread to take from this sidra, but the short verses that tell of the famine that would have killed them should they have stayed are maybe more instructive in these times of climate change happening across the globe as a direct result of human carelessness and greed.

Lech Lecha is the call to activism – Get up and go, make something happen! We Jews are called as our ur-ancestors were called. We should pay heed to the increasingly serious warnings our planet is giving us, and return to the work of stewarding, protecting and  supporting a healthy and diverse world.

 

 

Tu b’Av: an especially joyful festival to be reclaimed

The three weeks that lead from the 17th Tammuz (breaching of the walls of Jerusalem)  to the 9th of Av (Tisha b’Av) are traditionally a period of mourning, known as bein hametzarim – in the narrow straits. So it is all the more surprising that just one week after Tisha b’Av comes an especially joyful festival – the full moon of Av brings us Tu b’Av – when we are told:

Rabban Simeon ben Gamliel said: Never were there any more joyous festivals in Israel than the 15th of Av and the Day of Atonement, for on them the maidens of Jerusalem used to go out dressed in white garments – borrowed ones, however, in order not to cause shame to those who had none of their own. These clothes were also to be previously immersed, and thus the maidens went out and danced in the vineyards, saying: Young men, look and observe well whom you are about to choose; (Mishnah Ta’anit 4:8)

The rabbis of the Gemara are perplexed – ““On the 15th of Av and on the Day of Atonement,” etc. It is right that the Day of Atonement should be a day of rejoicing, because that is a day of forgiveness, and on that day the 2nd tablets of the Law were given to Moses; but why should the 15th of Av be a day of rejoicing?”

And so begins a fascinating rabbinic journey into what is behind the celebration of the fifteenth (Tu) of’Av :

Said R. Yehudah in the name of Samuel: “On that day it was permitted to the members of the different tribes to intermarry.” Whence is this deduced? Because it is written [Num 36: 6]: “This is the thing which the Eternal has commanded concerning the daughters of Zelophehad,” they claim that “this is the thing” implies the decree was only for that generation, but for later generations the decree doesn’t apply.

  1. Joseph in the name of R. Nachman said: On that day the members of the tribe of Benjamin were permitted to intermarry with the other tribes, as it is written [Judges 21. 1]: “Now the men of Israel had sworn in Mizpah, saying: Not any one of us shall give his daughter unto Benjamin for wife.”

Rabba bar bar Hana said in the name of R. Johanan: On that day the last of those who were destined to die in the desert died, and the destiny was thus fulfilled;

Ulla said: “On that day the guards appointed by Jeroboam to prevent the Israelites from coming to Jerusalem were abolished by Hosea the son of Elah, and he said: ‘Let them go wherever they choose.'”

  1. Matnah said: “On that day permission was given to bury the dead who were killed in battle at the city of Beitar”

Rabba and R, Joseph both said: On that day they ceased to cut wood for the altar, as we have learned in a Baraita: R. Eliezer the Great said: “From the fifteenth day of Av the heat of the sun was lessened and the timber was no longer dry, so they ceased to cut wood for the altar.”

There is a golden rule in rabbinic exposition – the more explanations given for something, the less likely it is that anyone knows what the explanation actually is. Clearly a celebration on the 15th of Av, which coincided with the beginning of the grape harvest, is part of the custom and practise of the Jews by the time of the Talmud, but its origin is already lost in the mists of time.

Let’s look briefly at the Talmudic explanations before looking at the festival itself.

The story of the daughters of Zelophehad is told in the book of Numbers- a rare piece of case law in that book and a powerful piece of text about women confronting Moses in order to attain fairness under the law. Zelophehad is dead, he had 5 daughters and no sons, and according to the rules of inheritance at that time, the girls would be left without anything. They approach Moses and argue their case, including the fact that their father will be forgotten in his tribe. Moses has to ask God about the merits of the case, and God tells him that the case of these daughters is valid; they should indeed inherit from their father. Later a problem arises, the leaders of the tribe of Manasseh – which the family of Zelophehad belong to – also bring a petition to Moses. Should daughters inherit when there is no son, and then marry into another tribe, the inheritance and land that would normally stay within the tribe will be given to the tribe that the woman marries into.

So the law is amended – such women who inherit land from their fathers must marry only within their own tribe – a limiting phenomenon that itself causes problems. So Rabbi Yehuda quotes Samuel by saying that tribes may now intermarry freely – and the date of this decision was the fifteenth of Av on the last year before the Israelites entered the Land of Israel.

The second explanation in the gemara is from a much darker story found at the end of the book of Judges, where a woman staying overnight in the territory of the tribe of Benjamin, was gang raped until she died. The other tribes went to war against the Benjaminites who would not give up the criminals for justice, and a ban was proclaimed which meant no one could marry into that tribe. This ban was eventually lifted on the fifteenth of Av. One assumes that this idea comes from the commonality of Tu b’Av to the statement in the Book of Judges ““And see, and, behold, if the daughters of Shiloh come out to dance in dances, then come out of the vineyards, and let every man catch  his wife of the daughters of Shiloh, and go to the land of Benjamin.” (21:21)

The third explanation – This comes from a midrash found in the Jerusalem Talmud amongst other texts, which say that the generation who were to die in the desert because of their connection to the sin of the Golden Calf expected to die on Tisha b’Av. This would cause a problem – if there were to be so many deaths on one day, then who would be able to dig the graves and bury the people? So Moses sent out a decree: On Tisha b’Av everyone must dig their own grave and sleep in it. Those who would die would die, and the survivors would simply have to fill in the graves with the bodies already in them. But many did not die who felt that they too were destined for this fate, and so they continued to sleep in the graves they had dug for themselves until they saw the full moon of Av and realised that Tisha b’Av was well and truly behind them. They would live!

The fourth explanation: King Jeroboam (c900BCE) had challenged Rehoboam the son of Solomon, because of his authoritarian rule, and took the ten Northern tribes with him to his capital Shechem. He built two temples as rivals to the one in Jerusalem (Bethel and Dan) and banned his people from going to worship in Jerusalem.  Fifty years later, the last King of the Northern Kingdom of Israel, rescinded the ban – on Tu b’Av – and the joy that ensued is encoded in the festival.

The fifth explanation also involves graves, in this case the ones slaughtered in the rebellion against Rome led by the false messiah Shimon bar Kochba in 135. The massacre of the Jews by the Romans was estimated by one Roman historian as being at least 580 thousand dead and many more taken captive into slavery in other parts of the empire. The majority of the Jewish population was exiled from the land and the land given a new name by the Romans – Syria Palestina – to try to sever the connection between the land and the Jews. Tisha b’Av saw the final destruction of Temple and hopes, and the fortress of Beitar was breached and its inhabitants murdered and left unburied. So Rav Matnah’s explanation for Tu b’Av is that 6 days after the tragedy (some stories say a year and six days), the Romans finally permitted the burial of the slaughtered Jews – on Tu b’Av.

After such dramatic explanations the final one in the list is more prosaic, but also most likely to be the case. Simply that the full moon of Av is around the summer equinox, the days are beginning to shorten and one might be less sure of enough dry weather for the wood cut down for the Temple sacrifices to be sufficiently prepared for its use, and any wood cut down later would be liable to smoke unpleasantly. This explanation is bolstered by the fact that we know of customs in the near East whereby the end of the season for cutting wood is marked by celebration including dancing and music.

So having established that Tu b’Av was being celebrated in Mishnaic times, that the young women would go out into the vines wearing white dresses they had borrowed so as not to be identified by their clothing, that they danced and sang and that clearly a shidduch market was in full swing on that date – the young men would chase them and choose their brides – the rabbinic tradition tried to explain the event using stories of rape, graves, massacre, orphaned women claiming economic rights and hence losing the right to marry outside of their tribe, civil war and rebellion against both internally among the Jewish people and also against an oppressive occupying power. One has to wonder why.

I am reminded of a recent “tweet” that asks why a prominent politician is tweeting terrible racism, and suggests that the deflection is to stop people paying attention to something worse – the statutory rape of underage girls.  Here the rabbinic tradition has a clear story of strong young single women in public space, helping each other with their clothing and “seductively” dancing and singing among the grape vines, with their symbolism of wine and wealth and fertility. So immediately there is a deflection – Beitar! Bnot Zelophehad! Possibly the darkest story in bible of a young concubine gang raped and murdered, whose fate was to be cut into twelve pieces each of which was sent to one of the tribes of Israel! Sin and death and lying in the grave! Rebellion and Massacre!

It seems to me that the Tannaim (the rabbis of the Mishnah, c50-200CE) were fine with the celebrations of Tu b’Av and the fact of young girls out on a summer evening enjoying their bodies, their strength and their music, but the Amoraim (the rabbis of the Gemara c200-500CE) were decidedly not. So Tu b’Av became a date more often ignored than celebrated. The single attention was liturgical – Tachanun (the penitential section of prayers of supplication and confession) are not said on Tu b’Av. Only since the modern State of Israel has been established has Tu b’Av been celebrated – it has become a kind of Jewish “Valentine’s Day”, a day for love, for weddings, for romance. The 19th century Haskalah poet Judah Leib Gordon wrote about its celebration in the newly planted vineyards and certainly for the more secular Israelis this is a Jewish festival to take to their hearts.

It’s worth noting the framing of the Mishnah where Tu b’Av is recorded. It is mentioned in the same breath as the most solemn day in the calendar – Yom Kippur, the Sabbath of Sabbaths, the white fast. On this day people traditionally wear kittels – the white shrouds they will be buried in. The day is a day of joy as well as penitence, because when we have truly repented, God will forgive us. We leave the day lightened by our activities and return more able to continue with living our lives.

There are real similarities between the two festivals, albeit one is a day out of time “as if dead” and the other a day of sensuous delight. Each reminds us of the importance of living our lives as fully and as well as we can. Each reminds us about living” in the now”, each helps us create our future selves.

So – let’s reclaim Tu b’Av, the full moon that follows three weeks of mourning,  that takes place 6 days after the blackest day in the calendar. Let’s remind ourselves that life must continue, joy must be part of our living, that relationships with others matter and that the future is ours to create

Tisha b’Av – the low point of the Jewish year and lessons we can learn

On Tisha b’Av we remember and  commemorate the destruction of both Temples in Jerusalem. A culmination of a three week period of mourning, which begins with the Fast of the 17th Tammuz, commemorating the first breach in the walls of Jerusalem, leading to the destruction of the First Temple.   In the Mishnah (Ta’anit 4:6) we read that “Five things happened to our ancestors on the 17th Tammuz, and five on the 9th Av (Tisha B’Av). On the 17th of Tammuz the tablets [containing the Ten Commandments] were broken; the daily sacrifice was discontinued; the walls of Jerusalem were breached; Apustamus, a Greek officer, burned a Torah scroll; and an idol was erected in the sanctuary of the Temple. On the Ninth of Av it was decreed that the generation of the desert would not enter the Land of Israel; the first temple was destroyed; the second temple was destroyed; Betar, (the last Jewish stronghold after the destruction of Jerusalem), was conquered; and Jerusalem was ploughed under. When the month of Av enters we diminish our joy.”

It is quite a list. The tradition is to cluster bad things together on one date, rather than to spread the pain of Jewish history throughout the year, colouring our days with mourning. So there are texts that tell us that on Tisha B’Av the First Crusade began, Ferdinand and Isabella expelled the Jews from Spain, and to bring us more up to date the First World War broke out on Tisha b’Av. There is a good case for observing Yom HaShoah on this date in years to come, adding the cataclysm of our times to the tragedies of our ancestors.  Others would like to explicitly add Kristallnacht, which took place on the 9th of November, the eleventh month, a sort of secular resonance with the 9th day of Av.

We need a day to focus on our mourning, a day for remembering the violence and pain of our history. And one day each year is really enough, it contains what would otherwise be uncontainable and which could overlay our national narrative and suffocate us with grief. As a Reform Jew for whom the traditional yearning for the return of the Temple is problematic, I find the only way to deal with Tisha b’Av is to place it in the context of the three weeks of increasing sadness known as “bein ha-metzarim” – within a narrow and constrained place, and then to reflect on our history, remember, acknowledge, and move on. It is no surprise to me that the 7 weeks of haftarah readings from Tisha b’Av towards Rosh Hashanah are all about hope, about return to God, about opening out to possibility and the future – we move from between the straits (bein ha-metzarim) into the wide open space of freedom to think, feel, remember and explore . Then comes Rosh Hashanah, time to make a new start, a new promise to our best selves, a new commitment to the future.

The Talmud asks the question: “Why was the First Temple destroyed?” and it answers itself thus: “Because of three things that occurred in it: Idolatry, immorality, and bloodshed…” But then it goes on to develop its thought -“the Second Temple, where they occupied themselves with Torah, Commandments and acts of kindness, why was it destroyed? Because there was a prevailing practice of baseless hatred (sinat chinam). This teaches that baseless hatred is equated with three sins: idolatry, immorality and bloodshed.” (Yoma 9b)

Sinat Chinam is equivalent to three huge sins together. It caused the destruction of the Temple and the expulsion of the Jewish people from their land for almost two thousand years. So what do we do about the hating without cause, the prejudging of others, the gratuitous dislike of the other. This is not necessarily an overpowering feeling that we are in thrall to, a visceral and ancient reflexive response that we can do nothing about. The responsa indicate that sinat chinam can be about simple ignoring of the humanity of the other, about not bothering to talk to them, to meet with them, to find out about them. Through sinat chinam we diminish the goodness in the world, as we refuse to recognise the goodness in each human person, to see them as valuable and possessing intrinsic worth. We have seven weeks now to reflect on how we treat others, both those we know and those we share our living spaces with – be it on the daily crowded train commute or the queue at the till, the person at the other end of the telephone or member of our own circle. We have seven weeks after Tisha b’Av to try to notice the humanity of each person we meet, and so to think about how we behave towards them. This is good work of teshuvah, for in meeting the other and recognising the spark of God within them, we become ready to face the spark of God within ourselves, the voice that reminds us that on Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur we will stand in the presence of the heavenly court as we judge our lives so far, and the perspective of that court will be mediated with our own attempts to be the best person we can really be.